Why is self knowledge so hard to achieve?

I recently showed you a cool tool to use if you're on a quest for self knowledge. I hope you had some fun with it and found some insight into the murky byways of your own mind.

Obviously it's just a tool and using it is not exactly the depth of introspection. I meant it to be a kind of trigger that would get you thinking more about the way you speak in general and so lead you to a real sense of awareness of what lies beneath the surface.

If knowledge is power, self knowledge is power over ourselves. The thing is that there's such a strong urge to settle for the superficial, which is why I felt the need to add to what I started there.

Nowadays we're so bombarded with information, and I don't mean all the rubbish that literally fills the pages of Google. No, there's so much very thoughtful, valuable stuff out there and the problem is that we've not got the mental space to take it in.

Our attention span is so reduced by the nearness of the "back" button that if you're even still here with me, you're probably among the last ones standing!

When it comes to tough thinking about yourself it's a hundred times harder. People will do a lot, including spending a lot of money, to avoid looking in the mirror and doing some real soul searching. Self knowledge is hard to come by because we're afraid of it and the power it gives us.

The Talmud states in Tractate Brachos that if something awful happens to a person, he should look into his own actions.

mezuzahHe's on the lookout for something he did - or more likely some deeper trait that needs working on. In traditional Jewish beliefs there's no such thing as an arbitrary event, so if something unexpected happens to you, you treat it as a guide to help you discover something about you that needs working on.

So given that, I wonder why then so many folk run to check their mezuzah when things start to go nuts. I really don't like to be so cynical, but it looks as if they just want to shift the blame, so to speak, from themselves to something a little more external. It's so much easier to deal with.

I'm not saying it hasn't ever happened that the mezuzah was found with a flaw, but I am saying that you need to look into yourself instead of searching for something external if self knowledge is your goal.

You can always take the path of least resistance. You can obsess about the things that are relatively easy to control, and make yourself believe that you're doing just fine. But you'll miss out on so much opportunity and potential that comes from really knowing who you are. I hope you don't.

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